July 2021 – Insideagarden

Posted on July 31, 2021 by admin_NzgxOGR — Leave a comment

Crochet Tops: Our Editor’s Favorite Summer Top Trend

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Source: Jules Kennedy for The Everygirl

I need to be honest about something: Summer has never been my favorite season to get dressed for. I know, I know, it’s great because you can just throw on a top, denim shorts, and head out the door. But I’ve always felt like the most basic summer combinations weren’t enough of a complete outfit for me—that is, until I found my favorite trend of summer 2021: crochet tops.

This summer, crochet knits of all types have shot to the top of the hottest trends lists—dresses, cardigans, and my personal favorite, tops. Rather than throwing on a plain T-shirt or tank, wearing a crochet top can take your basic look, with jean shorts and sandals, and turn it into a complete outfit. The texture and retro vibes transform anything they’re paired with instantly, and it’s the one summer trend I absolutely can’t get enough of.

Looking for a perfect, easy addition to guide you in riding out the rest of this summer? These crocheted tops are the solution. Trust us, you won’t be reaching for your cotton tanks again anytime soon.

Source: Jules Kennedy for The Everygirl

H&M

High Neck Crotchet Tank

2 colors available

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ZARA

Crocheted Top

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MANGO

One Shoulder Knit Top

2 colors available

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Karen Kane

Crochet Tank

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BP.

Crochet Crop Camisole

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Abercrombie & Fitch

Crochet Beach Tee Coverup

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BP.

Crochet Halter Top

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MANGO

Crotchet Crop Top

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Fashion To Figure

Vonetta Crotchet Top

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ZARA

Crotchet Knit Top

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ASOS

Stripe Crochet Cami

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Kut From The Kloth

Striped Crochet Tank

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ZARA

Floral Crotchet Top

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Posted on July 30, 2021 by admin_NzgxOGR — Leave a comment

What My Children Have Taught Me About Courage

Growing up, I thought that having courage meant doing big, daring and heroic things. I thought it was the kind of things that you watch superheroes do in movies. Yet, the older I get and the longer I am a mother, the more I see that courage is in the small, often everyday choices we make that propel us forward. Courage is in the fabric of each choice to bravely choose your own voice, believe in our worth, stand up for others or to simply try again.

I have found that a common thread weaving through all of parenthood is teaching my kids to choose courage. Because in the movies, the superheroes don’t always look like they’re making a choice. However, in real life, courage is a choice and a constant series of choices made in small, everyday moments. Just like children, we can learn to choose courage daily too.

Courage is in the small, often everyday choices we make that propel us forward.

Here are a few things that my children have taught me about courage:

Choose your own voice.

As a parent, I found myself coaching my children on choosing and listening to their own voices as early as preschool. It’s a skill we often need in unexpected moments.

My daughter came home one day describing in distress how another girl in her class told her, “We don’t like that girl, right? You can’t like her.” Her little 4-year-old mind was working hard to reconcile someone who she identified as a friend not only speaking negatively about another friend, but asking her to choose sides.

Have you ever been in that subtle moment as a grown-up when in a group of friends, at an office or even with extended family? Choosing your own voice is not always a big moment. It is often a quiet refusal to be incongruent with what you believe.

Choosing your own voice is not always a big moment. It is often a quiet refusal to be incongruent with what you believe.

We work on this in our house a lot. My other daughter, after being told on the playground by another child that there is a group of people God doesn’t love, turned to the girl and said, “Well that’s not true, but you can believe what you want.” She was able to hold onto her own thoughts and beliefs.

Believe in your worth.

“I believe in you, and I’m your biggest fan,” I told my son as he tried out for the soccer team. “No matter what happens we are so proud of you.”

As adults, we don’t often have as many opportunities to “show our work” to the class, enter a talent show or go for the team. Childhood is full of these exciting and sometimes scary opportunities. Believing in your own worth is an essential part of going for anything and an essential part of picking yourself back up if it doesn’t go how you hoped.

Believing in your own worth is an essential part of going for anything and an essential part of picking yourself back up if it doesn’t go how you hoped.

I have walked my kids through talent show rehearsals that went well—their little shaky knees walking up the stairs to the small stage in the school gym. Just as important, I hugged my kids as they cried and reminded them that their choice to be brave enough to try and the uniqueness of who they are is much more important than the outcome.

Knowing our worth is what makes us brave to try. And knowing our worth helps us pick ourselves back up when it doesn’t go how we hoped. What might you try if you knew you were worthy either way?

Stand up for others.

When we drove home from a rally to stand in solidarity with the AAPI community against the growing number of hate crimes this year, my son asked me an insightful question on the way home, “Mom, what can I actually do everyday to help stop this?”

We talked about many options as a white family, including standing up for others in school when there are racist remarks said about or to any other child. I sincerely hoped as a mom this wouldn’t continue to happen, but I knew better. The next week, my son got a chance to practice what he learned as another boy in his class mocked Asian culture. It was a comment made between a few other kids, and in that moment, my son practiced the power of standing up for others.

Using your voice for others in big ways is essential; however, the potential impact of taking a stand in any small moment that comes your way is a powerful act that can have huge ripple effects. How much more might you use your voice to stand up for others if you believed in the impact of every small moment?

Simply try again.

Sometimes, I feel like literally everything in childhood could be a lesson on trying again. Kids have not mastered anything quite yet. Everything they attempt is new to them at some point, even walking and talking.

As adults, we lose often sight of this. We fear looking stupid, of being embarrassed or of failing. So we pin ourselves into smaller and smaller corners with little to no new experiences. In the last two years, I have had a child learning to skateboard, another learning to roller blade and still another learning to ride a bike. They fall and fall, over and over again. The only way forward is to simply try again.

The only way forward is to simply try again.

It isn’t fancy or complicated. It is just the only thing you can do to move forward. Trying again seems obvious when you fall off a skateboard, but what if we gave ourselves as adults the same permission to just try again when we fail? How many more things might we try?

If courage has felt like a big or far off thing to you, pull that big idea off the metaphorical movie screen and into your everyday life. Courage is a small, daily choice that we all can make.

What have you done today or yesterday that required some measure of courage? Knowing that courage is a choice, what might you choose to do tomorrow?

Image via Melanie Acevedo, Darling Issue No. 11

Posted on July 29, 2021 by admin_NzgxOGR — Leave a comment

How to Talk About Finances With Your Significant Other

As a couples therapist, it may not surprise you that I see many couples struggling with conversations and disagreements surrounding the topic of money.

It’s a classic fight that couples have, like loading the dishwasher, asking for directions and driving. Money is just one of those things we expect couples to disagree about. However, what may surprise you is the “why.” Why is it that finances can be a difficult topic with your significant other? Once we identify the reason, we can understand more clearly how to talk to our significant other about money in a way that propels the conversation forward positively.

[Money] is a classic fight that couples have, like loading the dishwasher, asking for directions and driving.

Money is a topic that has many layers underneath it. Like the tip of the iceberg, money sits on top and is simply one part of the story—the part that we can see. However, underneath the water, like the base of the iceberg hidden from immediate view, are layers of personal experience, family history, culture, beliefs and values surrounding money.

Money is just one way we express our own history and background. When it comes to the topic of money, we each carry not only our own fears and hopes, but the fears and hopes of those who raised us and those who we grew up with. Money, for each of us, has a story, with lots of voices playing a part. In order to understand how to talk to your significant other about finances, there are few things you must do first.

Money, for each of us, has a story, with lots of voices playing a part.

Understand each other’s “money story.”

I imagine that when you first met your significant other you swapped stories. Maybe even on your first dates, you filled each other in on who you are and where life has taken you. You probably fell in love with your partner as you heard some of these stories. Maybe some of these stories caused you to take pause or maybe some of them were healing to share with each other.

Whatever the case, you probably got to know each other by sharing the stories you each carry. However, even with all this sharing in the early stages of dating, it is unlikely that you shared your “money story” with one another.

What is your money story? It is all the things you remember and experienced around money growing up in your family and in your larger culture. What were the implicit and explicit rules surrounding money? Were there experiences of being without money that make spending it anxiety provoking?

Was it encouraged that success means making a lot of money? Does that perhaps influence your goals today? Is giving money to those in need a value you were taught? Or were there people around you who spent and lost money irresponsibly which created a fear of doing the same?

[Your money story] is all the things you remember and experienced around money growing up in your family and in your larger culture.

The questions and details of each of your stories will be very unique. Spend some time getting to know and sharing with one another your “money stories.” You will likely marvel at what you never knew and how much more you know your partner afterward.

It’s never just about money.

Remember the iceberg analogy? Well now that you’ve shared your unique stories about money with each other, you may understand more of what goes into each other’s opinions, beliefs, anxieties and hopes about money. Spend some time discussing each of your personal patterns with money.

Is one of you very detailed and never spends a dime not allotted for in a spreadsheet? Does one of you spend more than you make, getting caught up in an emotional moment before crunching the numbers? Think through and discuss these patterns and tension points. Then, connect them to the stories you shared and just learned about the other.

Where does your story influence your decisions? What part of your family history do you want to emulate? What part of your history do you hope not to repeat?

Understand that when you talk or even disagree about money, you are touching on the parts of the iceberg underneath the water. Get curious together about what is impacting each of you as you share.

Understand that when you talk or even disagree about money you are touching on the parts of the iceberg underneath the water.

Prioritize your bond.

If it’s never just about the money, what should be the focus of understanding each other’s stories? One of the emotional questions we are all asking—especially in our most important relationships—is: Can I trust you?

According to the therapy model developed by Dr. Terry Hargraves, we all want to know that we are safe in the world and more specifically, safe with one another. So if your money story holds places of anxiety or a history of worry—or if you or your partner’s behaviors with money cause anxiety for the other—understand it’s still not only about the money.

It is about knowing that you can count on the other person. It is about knowing you will have what you need to feel confident that you will be OK in this world. It’s about knowing that your partner will help this feeling, not threaten it.

It’s still not only about the money. It is about knowing that you can count on the other person.

So as you talk about money, ask each other what you need to feel like you are reasonably secure in the world. Ask each other what behaviors and choices help build confidence in your partner around the topic of money.

Merge your stories: Make a plan that fits you both.

Finally, you are a couple now, not just an individual. You are two stories merged into one. This can feel hard sometimes, but it can also be amazing.

Discuss together which part of each of your stories you want to carry forward in terms of money. Also, figure out which parts you want to do differently and where you hope to veer away from the habits of your parents and those who came before you. Define together what you hope your shared relationship with money will look like. You’re writing a new story together.

What story do you hope those who see you or come after you will learn from the way you interacted with money? What do you want to include, aim for or prioritize as a couple going forward?

Image via Frank Terry, Darling Issue No. 6

Posted on July 28, 2021 by admin_NzgxOGR — Leave a comment

Darling Letters: When You Are Feeling Left Behind

We are bringing “Darling Letters” from your inbox to the blog! We love the art of letter writing and believe it helps build authentic community. Our editors and contributors have thoughtfully written encouraging letters to cut through the busyness and speak straight to your heart.

I remember how the inflection of her voice changed when she told me that Father’s Day was hard for her. It made sense. My childhood best friend never had a relationship with her birth father. So when the Hallmark holiday came around each year and hit social media and card aisles, it hurt.

It made her feel left out.

That was the first time I understood what it meant to be without something that you deeply long for. For me, that feeling of being left behind has grown increasingly in the area of dating, marriage and starting a family of my own. Every time another friend gets engaged or I receive a baby shower invite in my inbox, I am so excited to celebrate my friends.

In the same breath, I pensively question: What about me? Will this ever happen for me? Why not me?

I used to feel shame when these thoughts would come, but I’ve been learning to hold space for them and allow grace for the grief for what isn’t and the celebration for what is. I stand somewhere in between that tension, making room for the tears that come in the waiting while also celebrating the long-awaited victories in the lives of the people around me.

I’ve been learning to hold space… and allow grace for the grief for what isn’t and the celebration for what is.

Their victories have been hard fought battles. As I stand with a loose grip on both joy and sadness, I believe mine will be someday too.

It’s a hard space to navigate, but as I find my footing, I’m realizing there is beauty to be found here. Beauty in the tension of grief and celebration, of a dream deferred and a dream satisfied. The same way I make room for a friend in her longings and feelings of being left out, I can do the same for myself. As I do, I find courage to keep putting one foot in front of the other.

I’m realizing there is beauty to be found here—beauty in the tension of grief and celebration, of a dream deferred and a dream satisfied.

With hope,
Stephanie Taylor, Online Managing Editor

Is there an area of your life where you feel like you are lacking or as if you are left behind? How can you hold space for your own grief while making space to celebrate others?

Image via Judith Pavón Sayrach

Posted on July 27, 2021 by admin_NzgxOGR — Leave a comment

The Most-Used Beauty Products From Celebrity Videos

As someone who chronicles the entirety of middle school being obsessed with beauty YouTubers, I didn’t get into the celeb beauty video world until quite late. From Vogue’s Beauty Secrets to “Waking Up With Elle,” there are dozens of ways to watch our favorite celebrities do their skincare routines and apply their favorite beauty products. I love watching real, seemingly normal people put on makeup, share their favorite products, and give me tips based on their own trial-and-error. For a long time, I figured celebrities could only give me as much as their makeup artists told them, and they definitely weren’t using beauty products I could actually afford.

But I finally gave in, and next thing I knew, I. was. Obsessed. I probably spent the entirety of a Sunday watching beauty videos (which isn’t all that different from any other normal Sunday except this time it was filled with movie stars!). I also have quite the hobby of finding dupes for every expensive beauty product, so I’ve done my research big-time to find alternatives to celeb-worthy beauty at a normie-worthy price.

NuFace

Mini Facial Toning Device

This facial toning device uses microcurrents to massage the face. I watched three beauty videos with this in it and thought about going into debt for it immediately (don’t go into debt, please). You can see it add contours to the face that weren’t there, just by using it for 5-10 minutes. It’s also used to help prevent and treat fine lines and wrinkles. The reviews for this product are very inspiring, making this a good beauty gadget to add to your wishlist.

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Skin Gym

Rose Quartz Gua Sha Tool

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Amazon

Facial Roller

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Tom Ford

Shade and Illuminate

You can’t watch a celebrity do their makeup without a little Tom Ford. This cult-classic cream contour and highlighter is buttery smooth and blends into basically nothing on the cheeks. The highlighter is also genius for adding a glow without adding any glitters or shimmers.

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Milk Makeup

Matte Bronzer

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Fenty Beauty

Match Stix Matte Contour Skinstick

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BIOLOGIQUE RECHERCHE

Lotion P50

This French pharmacy favorite is a must-have in the beauty routines of French models (including, ahem, Harry Styles ex-girlfriend Camille Rowe … who wouldn’t want to emulate everything someone who once kissed the lips of HS does?!). It’s a little hard to track down (it’s only sold in a few places online and in Biologique Recherche spas), but those who use it swear by it. It’s a toner that lightly exfoliates, hydrates, and balances the pH of your skin. Many say the smell is a little foul, but it’s all worth it for beautiful skin.

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Glossier

Solution

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Pixi

Glow Tonic

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Physician’s Formula

Butter Bronzer

When I saw this drugstore bronzer used by Sofia Richie, I gasped. If you watch any beauty YouTube videos or have read a few beauty articles here on The Everygirl, you’ll recognize this bronzer; however, it’s also a favorite amongst celebrities too! It’s ultra-blendable and makes you look like you actually have a tan.

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Fenty Beauty

Sun Stalk’r Instant Warmth Bronzer

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Mented Cosmetics

Sunkissed Bronzer

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Laura Mercier

Translucent Loose Setting Powder

Considered probably the most iconic setting powder on the market, this is the exact powder used by most celebrities.

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Charlotte Tilbury

Airbrush Flawless Finish Setting Powder

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Hourglass

Veil Translucent Setting Powder

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Augustinus Bader

The Cream

Celebrities travel a ton, and even us Z-listers know how much flying in an airplane can dry out the skin. This pricey-but-gorgeous moisturizer lives in the bathroom cabinets of celebs such as Alexa Chung and Ashley Graham because it’s lightweight while also plumping the skin with rich hydration.

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Tatcha

The Water Cream

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Weleda

Skin Food

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NARS

Radiant Creamy Concealer

A good concealer is a must for celebs who want to look put-together without a face full of foundation. The cult-favorite Radiant Creamy from NARS adds the right amount of coverage without looking cakey or dry.

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Maybelline

Instant Age Rewind Dark Circle Concealer

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Tarte

Shape Tape Contour Concealer

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Dr. Barbara Sturm

Hyaluronic Serum

Dr. Barbara Sturm’s products are definitely on the higher-end, but celebrities (such as Hailey Bieber, Rosie Huntington-Whitely, Bella Hadid, Kourtney Kardashian—the list goes on!) rave about the German beauty brand. Her hyaluronic acid serum is one of her best-sellers because it contains multiple different sizes of hyaluronic molecules to penetrate the skin as deeply as possible. Its lovers say it’s lightweight, ultra-hydrating, and plumping.

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The Ordinary

Hyaluronic Acid 2% + B5

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Paula’s Choice

Resist Hyaluronic Acid Booster Concentrated Serum

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Glossier

Boy Brow

You might be living under a rock if you don’t know about the magic that is Boy Brow. Women who previously never touched their brows are amazed by what a little bit of this brow gel can do, and makeup enthusiasts who have tried it all still swear by this product. Opt for a shade slightly darker than your eyebrows for lots of definition, or go with the clear shade just to add hold.

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Elf Cosmetics

Wow Brow Gel

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Benefit Cosmetics

Gimme Brow Gel

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Dior

Backstage Glow Face Palette

If you want to glow big time, this highlighter palette is exactly what you should add to your cart. All four shades serve a purpose—highlighter, blush, bronzer—and they add a serious glow everywhere. Use the top two shades right at the very top of your cheekbones with a finger to look like you were touched by the Gods.

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Charlotte Tilbury

Hollywood Flawless Filter

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Wet N Wild

MegaGlo Highlighting Powder

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Skinceuticals

C E Ferulic

Celebrities, dermatologists, and pretty much anyone with an affinity for skincare loves this vitamin C serum. In a Vogue Beauty Secrets video with Ashley Graham, she said you can even use this before a day at the pool or beach under sunscreen to increase the effectiveness of your SPF and keep your skin glowy.

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Maelove

Glow Maker Serum

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Summer Fridays

CC Me Vitamin C Serum

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Caudalie

Beauty Elixir

This chic facial mist is more than just a facial mist—it primes your skin, adds hydration, and sets your makeup. It’s part-skincare/part-makeup. It’s another one of those products you’ll find in pretty much every model’s handbag.

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Mario Badescu

Facial Spray With Aloe, Herbs, and Rosewater

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Glow Recipe

Watermelon Glow Ultra-Fine Facial Mist

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Shiseido

Eyelash Curler

An eyelash curler is a staple in the makeup bag of pretty much anyone who does their makeup in my opinion—and celebrities agree! I have yet to watch a celebrity not curl their lashes before mascara, and this classic one (that is supposedly the best for not pulling out your lashes) is used quite a lot.

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Tweezerman

ProCurl Eyelash Curler

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ELF

Eyelash Curler

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Dior

Diorshow On Stage Liquid Liner

A good liquid liner is key for those model-off duty looks as well as cat eyes for nighttime. This Dior eyeliner is easy to apply and stays forever.

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Urban Decay

Perversion Waterproof Liquid Liner

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KVD Vegan Beauty

Tattoo Eyeliner

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Biossance

Squalane + Marine Algae Eye Cream

I saw this eye cream used by models and JVN (our queen). Made for all skin types, this eye cream basically does it all. Reducing puffiness, hydrating the undereyes, and smoothing wrinkles are just some of its claims. You’ll see every celebrity apply their eye cream with their ring fingers (it’s the most gentle), so I mean, we probably should too.

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OleHenriksen

Banana Bright Eye Cream

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Kiehl’s

Creamy Eye Treatment With Avocado

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Posted on July 24, 2021 by admin_NzgxOGR — Leave a comment

Where I Come From: The Patchwork City, a Mosaic of Texture and Color

“Where I Come From” is a Darling series that pays homage to the cities, towns and countries that we call home. Although we are not defined by where we come from, these places are a defining part of our stories.

When I tell people where I’m from,
I never know how they’ll respond.

That’s somewhere in the middle, right?
Good barbecue. Really good.
Oh, I hear it’s.. dangerous.. there.

That’s why I call it the Patchwork City.
We’re a mosaic of texture and color,
Many patches, stitched together.

I grew up in the suburbs by highway 270.
Sometimes, I think I spent more time on that highway
Than anywhere else between the ages of 5 and 15.
My dad lived across town where you could hear
The church bells by day and the train whistles at night.

In winter, snowmen filled the front yard.
In spring, lilacs adorned the backyard.
In summer, we go to hear Shakespeare in the park.
In fall, leaves fell everywhere.

My grandmother, God rest her soul, told me once
That she heard the summer opera through her window,
When she lived near the park as a young nanny,
“The wind carried it,” she said.

Isn’t that the most beautiful thing you’ve ever heard?

After college, I moved to the city. It was glorious.
I discovered her hidden parks, cathedrals, theaters and pubs.
Now, when I return I drive and drive, with no destination in mind.
And I always wind up back on 270, my old friend.

My Patchwork City, I see you more clearly with time.

Sometimes, the stitches hold us together,
Sometimes, they feel like dividing lines.
Sometimes, quilts must be taken apart to be put back together again.
Here I am, lending my hands, in the best way I know how.
I’m sorry I can’t be there in this fragile time.
But I’m praying for you and letting the wind carry it.

Image via Erin Foster, Darling Issue No. 24

Posted on July 24, 2021 by admin_NzgxOGR — Leave a comment

Fashion Through the Decades: How the ’70s Influences My Personal Style

On the Saturday mornings of my childhood, you could find me camped out in front of the TV watching one of two things: cartoons or “The Brady Bunch.” Arguably the most popular television show of the 1970s, my brother and I watched season after season of “The Brady Bunch” until we had seen them all. If you’ve never seen the show before, it follows the hilarious antics and heart-touching tales of six step-siblings (three daughters and three sons) united by their parent’s marriage along with their frenzied housekeeper, Alice.

Although I enjoyed watching the stories unfold and listening to the unfamiliar ’70s lingo, there was another reason I tuned in every Saturday morning—the outfits.

“The Brady Bunch” sisters, particularly Marcia and Jan, appeared on the screen wearing outfits like floral-patterned dresses with Peter Pan collars and high-waisted skirts cinched with thick belts paired with tall brown boots. The sisters’ laid-back yet lively outfits complemented their charming personalities and sharp wits. This was my first introduction into the fun, effortlessly cool fashion era of the 1970s.

This was my first introduction into the fun, effortlessly cool fashion era of the 1970s.

Fast forward 10 or 15 years into the future, and I find myself in a tiny consignment store the size of my bedroom. Hidden beneath cross-body bags and woven wallets piled on the floor sits the most unique purse I have ever laid eyes on—a 1970s vintage carpet bag. A funky pattern of gold, green and red flowers pops against a brown background, and brass hardware creates a streamlined look. My first real vintage purchase, this bag spurred a love for incorporating ’70s inspired pieces into modern looks as I paired it with ripped jeans, a black tank top and ankle boots.

I seem to discover 1970s inspiration almost anywhere. Just recently, I was digging through old family photos at my grandmother’s house and fell in love with the everyday style of the 1970s I saw. I took note of the chunky stripe patterns, tall socks with sneakers and wide-legged pants that my father and his siblings wore. Even my grandfather sported a stylish mock turtleneck sweater in one photograph.

Now while shopping or browsing Pinterest boards, I find myself drawn to bold patterns and high-waisted silhouettes. One of my go-to outfits is a pair of high-waisted, flare-cut denim jeans, a loose kimono with a striking floral pattern, white sneakers and a wide headband. For a dressier evening, I might switch out the sneakers for chunky heels. This simple yet vibrant outfit helps me to express my confidence and bravely take on the day—no matter the twists and turns I’ll likely face.

My first real vintage purchase….spurred a love for incorporating ’70s inspired pieces into modern looks.

I’m not alone in this love for mixing the old and the new. Many staples from the 1970s are considered back in style again, as many women flock to trends like high-waisted pants and middle hair parts. In hopes of finding a unique piece, I tend to stick to the racks of thrift stores where clothes pour in from all eras and walks of life. One impact that ’70s fashion has had on me is that I’m no longer afraid to experiment or try something new.

The influence of the 1970s on my personal style seems perfect for this moment in history. In navigating a shaky post-grad future and a global pandemic, these outfits present to me an opportunity for self-expression that goes beyond mere fabric to cover myself. These bold patterns, fun silhouettes and easy-going elements allow me to convey a part of myself that braves the unknown, adapts to new challenges and, best of all, discovers joy along the way.

What fashion trends do you appreciate from the 1970s? What time period influences your style the most?

Image via Aki Akiwumi, Darling Issue No. 20

Posted on July 23, 2021 by admin_NzgxOGR — Leave a comment

15 Adult Lunchables That’ll Make You Excited to Meal Prep

Prepping a week’s worth of lunches can feel boring and monotonous. When you’re eating the same thing every day of the week, eating can feel like a chore.

Enter Bento Boxes — the perfect way to make lunches fun again. Bento Boxes break up your lunch into different sections (they’re essentially adult lunchables), which makes it easy to mix it up. It makes it easy to switch up the sides every day, so you aren’t eating the same exact meal five days in a row, (think celery and ranch as a side one day, but an apple with peanut butter the next, while keeping the main portion the same). Try it out this week with these 15 Bento Box recipes.

1. BBQ Chickpea Wrap

Source: It’s Liv B

2. Breakfast Bento Box

Source: It’s Liv B

3. Apple and Peanut Butter Sandwiches

Source: Bless This Mess

4. Salami and Crackers

Source: Wendolinia

5. Turkey Bagel Sandwich

Source: Two Peas & Their Pod

6. DIY Starbucks Protein Bistro Box

7. Mini Quiches

Source: Momables

8. Banana Roll-Ups

Source: Celebrating Sweets

9. Deli Meat Roll-Ups

Source: The Kitchn

10. Salmon and Marinated Shrimp Salad

Source: Cooking In Sens

11. Grilled Chicken Salad with Spinach and Barley

Source: Yum Box Lunch

12. Quesadillas

Source: The Kitchn

13. Granola Bento Box

Source: Kristine’s Kitchen Blog

14. Spring Roll Bento Box

Source: The Kitchn

15. Pico de Gallo Quinoa Bowls

Source: One Lovely Life

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7 Home Styling Tips We Learned From Studio McGee

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Seven years ago, the (remarkably beautiful) couple behind Studio McGee sold their California home to chart a new path: starting their own interior design business. Since then, they’ve acquired 3 million Instagram followers, launched a home goods line with Target, and shared enough drop-dead gorgeous interior photos to keep us mesmerized for days.

Thanks to Shea McGee’s signature style, I can almost instantly spot a Studio McGee image on my Instagram feed. The designs have a clean yet collected vibe, which manages to effortlessly balance laid-back, California style with sophisticated and luxurious details.

Ahead, we’re sharing the seven home styling tips we’ve learned from Studio McGee since we first started fangirling all those years ago.

1. Mix masculine and feminine details

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Balance can always be found in a room designed by Studio McGee, and juxtaposing masculine and feminine details is a trend you’ll find throughout their projects. Try layering moody leathers with light and airy linen, or soft, vintage floral rugs with wood accent tables.

2. Forgo the furniture set

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As tempting as it is to head to your nearest big-box furniture store and order a furniture package in one fell swoop, Studio McGee’s room designs will be your greatest incentive to resist. As the team shares in this blog post, mixing styles of furniture offers a more thoughtful aesthetic, and also allows you to combine investment pieces with budget finds to create a balanced room that suits your individual budget.

3. Make the entryway a moment

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The entryway is often overlooked in favor of higher priority rooms like the living space and primary bedroom, but Studio McGee’s entryways will give you pause for this approach. Instead, focus on making your entry a feature with an accent table, lighting, and a few simple, functional accessories. Its smaller footprint will make it a quick and inexpensive project, which means you’ll get to enjoy the fruits of your labor in no time.

4. Contrast is key

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While most Studio McGee rooms can be found decorated in a neutral color palette, contrast remains a highly utilized element. Pairing light and dark features against one another adds interest and depth, as seen here in this light-filled kitchen with moody, black kitchen cabinetry.

5. Wall-to-wall carpet is not the enemy

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Admittedly, we feel like we’ve been sleeping on wall-to-wall carpet as a bonafide interior design feature. For a more high-end feel, opt for carpet that’s looped rather than cut, which will offer a textural element to your space that is reminiscent of sisal or jute. We particularly love this styling tip for bedrooms—after all, whose tootsies want to wake up to chilly flooring first thing in the morning?

6. When in doubt, add greenery

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A quick scroll through the Studio McGee Instagram feed will leave you hard-pressed to find an image without a bundle of greenery on a tabletop, or even an actual tree tucked away into a corner. This finishing touch infuses literal life into each space, thanks to a hearty injection of color and texture. It can also be a super budget-friendly hack—just head to your backyard for a few extra tree clippings that will make all the difference when styled in an oversized vase on your coffee table.

7. Utilize textiles for pattern and color

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The Studio McGee team almost always opts for neutral furniture staples, while allowing accent textiles (i.e. throw pillows and blankets) to bring in added patterns and pops of color. As a budget decorator myself, I greatly appreciate this rule-of-thumb since it means I get more longevity and versatility from my furnishings and investment pieces. Moral of the story: You can never underestimate what a difference details and accessories can make in a room.

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Nordstrom Anniversary Sale Pieces Worth Splurging On

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If you’ve read any of my past articles, you would know that there’s nothing I love more than shopping on a budget. I love a good dupe as much as I love rewatching New Girl for the 100th time—and that’s saying something. However, that doesn’t mean that I don’t also appreciate a little splurge every now and then—and the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale is the perfect time for that.

One of the main reasons I love the Nordstrom sale is that I can find items that make great investment pieces but still get a great deal on them. You can find anything from classic items that everyone should have in their closet to wish list items you’ve been eyeing for a while. But more than anything else, the sale is the perfect time to invest in great coats, shoes, and accessories that you know you’ll wear for years to come.

Here are 18 of the best Nordstrom Sale items that I think are worth splurging on (go ahead, treat yourself!):

MARC FISHER

Padmia Chelsea Boot, $99.90

I own a black pair of chunky boots that are very similar to this, and I’ve been wanting a white or cream pair since last fall. So when I saw these, I added them to my wish list immediately. The color is perfect, and Marc Fisher boots are known to be high quality.

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MARC FISHER

Pointed Toe Bootie, $129.90

Everyone needs a pair of pointed-toe black booties, and this cult-favorite option is absolutely perfect. They go with everything, look super chic, and are high quality. I seriously live in black booties for fall and winter, so if any shoe is worth splurging on, it would be these.

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TORY BURCH

Chelsea Lug Bootie, $249.90

At over $100 off, these boots are an insane deal. I think that the style and material of these are absolutely stunning, and they would make a great addition to anyone’s wardrobe. I own very few designer pieces, but I would definitely consider purchasing these.

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FRANCO SARTO

Stevie Bootie, $109.90

These mid-calf boots caught my eye immediately during my first scroll of the sale preview. I love how unique they are, but they’re still classic enough that I would wear them in other seasons.

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Nike

Air Zoom Pegasus 38 Running Shoes, $89.90

We’ve all been at the point where the only sneakers we own are basically falling apart. This all-white pair is not only great for running/working out, it’s also the perfect way to round out a chic athleisure look.

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Collar Textured Coat, $109.90

The coat selection is always the first thing I like to browse through during this sale. I believe that classic coats are one of the few items that are definitely worth an investment because you know that you can keep them for years. I love that this one is a classic silhouette, but the muted blue makes it a little bit unique.

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HALOGEN

Double Face Wool Coat, $129.90

All three colors of this coat are absolutely stunning, but I especially love this charcoal gray color because it’s neutral but different from tan or black. You might be heading back to the office soon, so this coat is a perfect addition to your workwear wardrobe.

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SPANX

Faux Leather Leggings, $64.90

Our team can’t stop talking about these leggings, but for good reason. They’re one of the most versatile pieces of clothing ever—you can dress them up and wear them out or on a dinner date, or you can wear them with an athleisure look for ultimate cool-girl vibes. If you don’t have a pair yet, now’s the time; you won’t see another price this low all season long.

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Nike

Fleece Hoodie, $48.90

I’ve seen this hoodie all over Instagram, so I’m thinking it might finally be time to get one for myself. It’s super versatile, and I feel like it would be one of those “nice hoodies” that you would feel cool in (please say other people have this feeling too?).

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Beyond Yoga

Square Neck Crop Tank, $45.90

I’ve had my eye on Beyond Yoga for years—I’ve heard nothing but good things about how great the quality is and how soft the material is. This cropped square-neck tank is super flattering, and there’s nothing I love more than when I don’t have to wear a sports bra and a top to work out.

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Beyond Yoga

High Waist Leggings, $62.90

Who doesn’t love a matching set? At over $30 off, there’s no better time than now to treat yourself to a cute new workout outfit. I always tell myself that I’m much more motivated to work out when I have a cute outfit to wear, and this set definitely fits that bill.

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TRUE & CO.

V-Neck Bralette, $37.90

I live in True & Co. bras, so I was beyond excited to see them in the sale. As someone with a larger chest, the bras I own from their True Body Lift line are some of the only wireless ones I own that are actually supportive. The soft, buttery material makes them perfect for wearing out and about or at home.

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RAY-BAN

State Street Square Sunglasses, $99.90

I’ve been seeing people wearing this style of Ray-Bans for a little while now, and I think they’re so cute and different. The silhouette is unique, but they’re classic enough that you know you’ll wear them for years to come.

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Coach

Pebble Leather Crossbody Bag, $199.90

Coach has made a serious comeback in the last year or so (I have a bag and I’m obsessed), so what better time than now to grab one for yourself? It’s the perfect mid-range price point for leather goods that makes you feel like it’s a special treat but doesn’t give you insane sticker shock.

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Bony Levy

14K Gold Set of 2 Earrings, $185.90

If you’re like me and only buy super cheap jewelry that tends to wear and tarnish, it might be time for us to take it up a notch. This set of two pairs of earrings is 14K gold, which is something I rarely see go on sale. It might seem like a high price tag now, but I think these everyday earrings would stand the test of time and save you money in the long run.

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Argento Vivo

Herringbone Chain Necklace, $49.90

Argento Vivo jewelry is high quality at a mid-range price point. I love this gold herringbone chain necklace because it’s definitely a wardrobe staple that I don’t think is going out of style anytime soon, so I believe it’s worth spending a little extra on.

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Boy Smells

Late Bloomer Votive Candle Set, $56.00

Boy Smells is another brand that I’ve had my eye on forever. Not only is their branding insanely cute, but they also have a ton of unique scents that would make for a perfect addition to any room. Since you can’t smell a candle when shopping online, this set of votives is a great way to test them all out.

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Barefoot Dreams

CozyChic Throw Blanket, $97.90

I’ve been lusting after a Barefoot Dreams blanket for years, but I can never bring myself to shell out the $150. I own a robe, so I just know that this material cannot be duped. If I ever was going to take the plunge and buy one, it would definitely be from the Nordstrom Sale because the sale price can’t be beat.

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